But I despise it when people say "at least you got a healthy baby", "at least you are still alive" etc etc. I am just not seeing what you are all seeing in this article.
That kind of stuff makes my blood boil. It isn't ok, and I think it all comes down to voice, so many of us have had no voice in our births and a lot of the time it turns out badly. Which is why I really think that we all should have the right to any birth we feel comfortable with- Even if it is a c/section with no medical reason, even if it is a freebirth etc.
I'll have to sit down and read it again when my kids aren't bugging me!!