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    Quote Originally Posted by Bell & Bug View Post
    Nothing. I don't smack and don't believe there is a lesson to be learnt from smacking.
    This. Except the only lesson I think kids learn is that people who are bigger than you can hit and it's ok.

    I've got 3 kids and have faced every safety issue anyone has ever used to justify a smack and I've never smacked. People can say all they want about nothing else working or no other opportunity for other forms of discipline but I still do not agree with smacking. DH and I have agreed tha if either of us ever raised a hand to our kids it would be a serious problem in our relationship.

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    We all have things we would never do.

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    any dangerous situation that threatens their safety.
    a single smack to the bottom.

    all other discipline is discussion and time out.

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    No smacking here. Its a stupid way to "teach" a child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by halloweendee View Post
    any dangerous situation that threatens their safety.
    a single smack to the bottom.

    all other discipline is discussion and time out.
    I can't do time out with dd, it distresses her. I used distraction when she was younger, now we use discussions, but there have been a couple of smacks on the bottom when it was the only thing.


 

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