The same as I'd feel if he told me I couldn't play with a certain friend, made me go to bed at a certain time, restricted what I could eat.……
Ya know, all the stuff that comes with being a 'parent'.
I can't speak for your relationship
VicPark but if my partner tried to 'parent' me rather than treat me as an equal, it wouldn't be much of a relationship in my eyes.
This is why I find it ridiculous reasoning - how can you compare a husband using a smack as 'discipline' to a parent disciplining their child?