With the frustration of trying to communicate with your kids' father? And their family?
I am generally on good terms with XDP.. He frustrates the F&*k out of me though and just doesn't. Get. It. We have a 5 mth old DD who he sees twice-ish a week (not enough IMO but he works 60 hours a week). Anyway, his Mum hasn't seen DD since the day I had her, shes arranged things with me and cancelled, not called when she is going to etc. XDP only told me last night he'd arranged for us to drive 1.5 hrs to see her tomorrow, I asked if he could see if she'd come to us or meet halfway which he said he would.. I reminded him THREE times today and he spoke to her at 8pm tonight and for some reason we are still going the full way to her at 7:30 in the f#+king morning!!!!!! DD isn't even awake then! When I said this, he cracked it and said he doesn't even want to go, he'll see how he feels in the morning.. WTF! I cancelled my appt for a massage and facial (voucher given for my birthday) so we could go, but WHY can't he understand that he needs to ask me or at least work around DD.. Or even keep a plan!
Argh. Sorry for the novel but I am fuming! How do you cope? I am really struggling not to snap :-(
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