Trying to stay away but i need help.
Please keep it nice. I am totally cool if you do not agree with me..but don't attack me or be condescending. Thanks so much. x
Agnes is in Ireland with her Dad. Tonight my FIL has booked for all the family to go stay in a hotel. He has paid a lot of money to stay at this hotel.
There is 3 couples with 3 kids each, DH and Agnes and My FIL and MIL.
They have booked a big adults only dinner at 9pm...and have booked 3 hotel babysitters to mind all the kids.
This is not something I am ok with. I am not ok with my child being in a different country, with people she has only known a week, in a room with a stranger.
DH is most upset at me as I have asked him not to leave her. Last night he went out and left her at home with the grandparents, this is totally cool with me, but Agnes cried and ended up in bed with them. I am so glad that she was with them and they could make her feel safe.
Agnes called me about 2 hours ago, while DH was in the shower , to tell me she is not happy about tonight.
DH has listened to me, but I feel that he is under HUGE pressure from the family.
.I have told him the options are, Take Agnes to dinner or miss out.
He has come up with the compromise of, stay in the room till agnes is ok and then leave her with her Ipod touch, and she can text.
Far out, I am just shaking at the thought.
Please any advice is welcome...just not a "why would you be so worried."
I am worried and wont stop worrying...lol.