I've had them all
- it wasn't meant to be
- something must have been wrong with the baby
- at least you already have one child
- you can just start trying again
- I had one fried say "I'm glad someone knows what it feels like now"
After my last ectopic when I went back for a checkup, the dr on call was talking me through my options for trying again and said IVF is the way to go. She then turned to my 3yo and said "so, do you want a brother or sister?" WTF?!?! The poor little kid is already confused enough then you ask her that?!