My husband and I are expecting our third baby boy in two weeks time. Life is already hectic with my two older boys, age 5 and 3 and it’s going to get busier and crazier. I am feeling a bit worried about it all and so is my husband under the stress of work and family life. It should be exciting times, but for some reason I have not being able to get as excited and happy as I was in my two previous pregnancies, which I feel slightly guilty about. I guess it’s only normal when it comes to look after a big family… Anyway, cutting a long story short, we came to the conclusion that we won’t be able to tackle this without help. Unfortunately we don’t have family around we can rely on and decided to find an au pair. Does any one have experience with this sort of thing? How do I go about finding one? How do I know this is the right person for our family? I assume I have to go through an agency? Is there one better than the other? Gosh the questions are endless…. I would really appreciate some advice on this, as I feel time is running out and I have to find someone as soon as possible. Thank you so much in advance!