For us, we'll prob tell DP's mum first honestly. She has been wanting grandkids forever haha! Also she's had a tough year so it will be such a nice surprise, we've been planning creative ways of surprising her too (like if we found out near mothers day or her birthday we could get her a grandma card and put a scan pic inside). My own mum passed away when I was 5 so DP's mum will be pretty important for me during pregnancy and after. We'll also tell my dad and our siblings before 12 weeks too and everyone else can wait
I think those sound like great goals! I agree with MrsLA's advice just to set fairly loose goals and don't get too stressed/anxious about them. I am definitely guilty of not enough exercise, I do enough running and walking but I want to start going to a yoga/pilates class. I think that would be hugely beneficial for pregnancy and birth esp since I'm prone to back problems. I've been meaning to get myself organised with that for a while, I should really get on it! Not long to go! Other than that, I think I'm going to grab myself a couple of pregnancy and baby books to start reading through. Anyone have suggestions for good books?