I'm hoping you guys can help settle a debate that DP and I are currently having
Here is the scenario...
You've just had a baby and it's your first week at home. Your BIL and SIL want to visit after they finish work, so this would be around 5:30pm.
They arrive at 5:30pm with take away for themselves, and proceed to eat it in front of you.
Is this rude?
In general, do you think it's rude to arrive at someone's house (family or otherwise) with take away for yourself without phoning ahead and asking if anyone else would like some?