So ive been having issues with DH not pulling his weight around the house. He works mon-fri 8-4.30 and i work 3/4 nights a week 5-9pm (including weekends).
The thing is i feel like im intiltled to have him help me out around the house a bit. I not expecting him to do everything, just a few little things to help me out. Ive asked him constatly to pick his(and the kids) clothes up off the floor and put them in the laundry. Ive asked him to put the dishes away (NOT wash them) and ive asked him to put the folded laundry away. It seems on the weekend (when hes not working) hes great at these things but during the week is another story. The washing will sit there in the basket for weeks, the dishes dont get out away (he says he doesnt have time) and he leaves his clothes lying around all week.
Ill put the washing on his side of the couch, but it just gets pushed out of the way. I ask him to pick his clothes up and i get 'just wait a f**kn minute'. I ask him t putt he dishes away and he says 'im so busy with the kids at night i dont have time'.
Im so sad about this, i feel like im doing EVERYTHING. I look after the kids all day, do the washing, dishes, sweeping, mopping, i do ALL the shopping and even have to tidy up outside. On top of that i work 20 hous a week.
Its driving me crazy. We're supposed to be a team but it feels like its all me!
So it got me thinking. What EXACTLY does your DP do around the house?