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    Default No idea where your b/f lives?

    A girl I know has been seeing her b/f for a few months now... he sees her when it suits him... doesn't seem overly committed to her and makes excuses why he doesn't see her... it's not you it's me... blah blahhh

    Anyway.. she has no idea where he lives! This seems really odd to me and makes me wonder what he has to hide and how committed to her he actually is. She talks of a future with him but many others seem to think he is just using her for sex when it suits him.

    Would anybody put up with not knowing where their so called DP lives?

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    Nope. Wouldn't put up with it and sounds like your friend is a booty call not a gf to this guy.

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    Wow, I hate to say it, but after a few months I'd be worried about a potential "other life" (ie wife and kids) being hidden from me if I were her. Just smacks of deception.

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    I have a friend in a similar position.
    Id say he calls her a f buddy, not dp, but she doesnt see it

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    I dated a guy a few years ago (as a single mum) who sounds just like him. I didn't put up with it. I don't think your friend should either. It sounds like his either not serious or his hiding something. I hope your friends builds her respect for herself to leave him and find someone who is more worthy.

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    Married or partnered simple.

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    I didn't even think twice about your question. I wouldn't tolerate not knowing where he lived, not getting straight forward answers or being his sloppy seconds.

    It's also a safety factor knowing where he lived. If something were to happen to me whilst I was with him, I'd want people to know where to start looking.

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    Really makes you wonder how somebody can't see it for themselves even when ppl are constantly telling them. We all think she's a fool and people are starting to pull away from her because they are sick of hearing the excuses she makes.

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    Agree with Missie Mack, it's not like there are lovely, decent, honest guys in abundance and it's just a matter of picking one of those instead...

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    I had a friend in this position, where he would never want her to visit at his house, only came around when it suited..... he was married with kids sadly she kept sleeping with him though


 

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