Thank you for thinking of us and for your advice. I honestly hadn't thought about seeking councilling outside of what has been offered (through SACASA? I think) I have been overwhelmed by so much all at once but it is definitely something both she and I need. I'm so lost When it comes to what to do next. As far as I know, he hasn't been spoken to yet but I do know that all the police where going to do was literally "go and talk to him". I don't understand why it is being handled so badly, we have done everything that has been asked of us and given as much information as we could and still I feel like they don't care at all.