I was the one who suggested recording the ph call (as it was one of a few things my mother did when she found out about my father)
Im not sure what the legalities are, though it does boil my blood at the thought that you possibly couldnt use a recorded confession (have no idea what is wrong with the legal system) Im not going to say that I know them so probably best to find out first xx I could ask my mum what happened with it but the thing is he got spooked and changed his plea to guilty so for us it never went that far I guess?
I did want to say that I was that little girl, in pretty much exactly the situation that your daughter is in now.. My biological father started abusing me.. well for all I know as far back as a baby? I dnt know because like your sweet girl I didnt know times/dates at that age! (ridiculous) I didnt come forward until I was 12. after things had developed much worse.. this is because the feeling.of responsibility fear and confusion is so immense! As a child you simply dnt understand why and assume it is your fault.. as we all feel going against our parents is 'bad' as children, you have no idea they could possibly be the bad guy..
What she has done is one of the hardest things a little one can do, its incredibly scary coming forward, and even more so being questioned hy strangers following.. she is an amazing brave and strong little girl
more coming (on my ph)
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