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    I am so sorry to hear what you and your poor little girl are going through! What a monster, I would cut his balls off! How devastating for you. I couldn't even imagine how you would be feeling. Thinking of you both xx

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    That all sounds so nightmarishly horrifying.

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    I am in tears after reading that, I cannot express how sorry I am that you and your daughter are going through such a horrible situation.
    It's totally gut wrenching.
    I think your stuck on auto pilot just to get through your day, and still in total shock

    You must never blame your self for this "How did I never see it, How did I not know?"
    Do not ask your self these questions, these sick people gain your trust, gain the trust of children and do horrible things, thinking nothing will ever come out about it.
    Most of the time kids never speak up, thank god your daughter told someone, I pray and hope that the justice system gets their act together for your darling daughter.

    I can understand how wanting to take things into your own hands would bring more justice.
    There would be many things I could imagine you would want to do to him, but it wouldn't be the right way to go about it for your daughter.

    Keep being their for your daughter, everything your doing for her Is excellent.
    One of her parents betrayed her and for her to still be able to talk to you shows that you are an amazing mother and friend to her.
    She will remember for the rest of her life how you were here for her now.

    Do you have full custody of her?
    I hope that whilst this is all happening she isn't made to see him again

    Sending many many many hugs to you.
    I'm so very sorry you and your daughter are going through this.
    We are all here for you of you ever need to come and talk.

    Once again Hugs and I'm so Sorry.
    Will keep you and your daughter close to my heart and in my prayers.

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    I have no idea what to say other than im terribly sorry your family is going through this, and i wish you all the strength to get through it. You sound like a wonderful mother

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    like others i couldnt read without posting something,.

    I am so sorry that a. this happened to your daughter. and B how hard it is proving to get this Disgusting excuse for a man to do time for it. it really is a joke that they cant lock him up, what to say he wont do it agian to some other small child,


    please look after yourself.

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    Be strong.. x

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    Oh my god.

    I cannot imagine the extent of everything you must be feeling. My stomach just dropped reading this. It is sickening.

    Huge hugs and sending lots of strength your way. Im hoping the police/courts do end up protecting you and your dd and you do get justice in the end. It's just... I don't even have the words...

    Xoxoxoxo

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    Massive massive hugs to you & your daughter

    I hope he is held accountable for what he did.


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    Omg I feel for you. I was s3xually abused as a child for many years ages 5-10-By my mums partner at the time and I only came out about it when I was 21, I went to the police at that time but chickened out. Your daughter is incredible brave for stepping forward and doing what is right. What ever the outcome your daughter is so brave and I wish I was like her when I was her age. I feel proud of her and I don't know
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    My blood actually ran cold when I read this

    That is absolutely disgusting that this happened to your daughter and appalling that our legal system has let her down so terribly. Who cares if it was 2 or 5 years ago. I cant remember things down to the day 2 years ago let alone an 8 year old.

    My only advice to you would be to write everything down in a diary. I am not sure if anything will come of it but if you need to recall anything from the moment you found out it may come in handy...also may help to write it down.

    From what I know you have other legal avenues to get your little girl justice but I do not know enough of them to give advice only DO NOT GIVE UP.

    Keep her away from that pig of a man. Find yourself support wherever you can and be the support for her that she needs.

    I do not know if this is important however how did the police find out...has he done this to other children and they told??? If this is too personal I understand I was just thinking if there were more than one how can the police ignore it?

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