I have 4 children aged 6,4,17 months and 3.5 months!!
I feel like I'm not handling it all to well!! I try the best I can but everything just gets on top of me!!!
I get NO help with the kids from DP what so ever but he goes out all day long and comes home to a chaotic house while in trying to cook dinner with a screaming baby and toddler in toe then gets mad cause the house is chaotic!! Seriously I'm not friggin super women im one person and can only do so much!!!
He gets time to himself whenever he wants it I can't even go to the bloody toilet without the toddler following or the baby crying!!!
Today has just been utter hell, the baby and toddler both have diarrhea and colds so I have done nothin but change soiled nappies and wipe snotty noses all day long and the oldest decides it time to have an attitude and back chats all day while he is out doing what he wants without a care in the world!!!!
It's not fair when is it my turn ?? He thinks that because I wanted them that I'm the only one that needs to have any input!!!
Since when did being a parent become a casual position ???
I have just had the toddler screaming because he has nappy rash from the diarrhea and I'm exhausted im not handling it too well , BUT when I pipe up and say something to him I'm a bad parent cause I can't continue to cope with it!!!! Ummmmmmmm what!!! I have listened to it all day long , not being able to put the baby down cause she just screams and then have a toddler in toe who also wants to be picked up but he comes home has a meal waiting for him and then goes to bed cause he's 'tired' !!!!
Seriously what did u do all day sit on your *** that's what while I ran around like a blue *** fly and your saying your exhausted!!!!
I dont know how much more I can take of this!!!! I feel like I'm failing as a mother because I feel I can't cope with it!!!
If you make it this far through thanks for reading!!!