I am 30 weeks pregnant. I spent the whole day yesterday scrubbing the house. All I asked DH to do was mow the yard, which he said he will do for the last month. Our bAck yard is that over grown in some parts it's up to my waist (weeds). He sat on his a$$ all day playing games on his phone. Oh and went into work when he didn't need to- he could have done it from home. I told him yesterday I felt sick, and last night mentioned I felt even worse. This morning he woke me up so he could go fishing. I said I didn't mind if he went but I wanted the yard done first and that I was feeling crook still. He said he would only be an hour and would do the yard when he got home. He has been gone for almost 2.5 hours now.
It's not the fact he went- he deserves some Down time. It's the fact I hate being told one thing and him do another- he does it everytime he goes out. He says he will be home by a certain time and then doesn't come home for hours afterwards. It really annoys me. Especially at times like today where there is stuff to do, I'm sick and the kids are playing up.
If you say you will be home at a certain time then BE HOME AT THAT TIME!!!!!! If you don't plan on being home at the time you said, either don't says time to start with or call me and let me know!!!!! He knows it drives me nuts. Yet he still does it. And he wonders why I don't like him goin out. Amount other reasons.