Jasper sounds like Ds1!
hehe Ds1 rarely wakes up crying but when he does I gotta be there in 10 seconds or its hell to pay!
I honestly lay in DS2's bed with him at night till he drifts off because thats just what works for him. Sometimes I wonder of its teaching.him dependence but I mostly just relax and think of it as what works and what makes him happy right now (hes also 2) I also lay with him a bit when he wakes up crying at night because it seems to work really well (plus its easy. I get to lay down! lol!) I always leave again once hes asleep and he seems fine
I think most mums on here have the best intentions and know what works best for their kids.
my advice would be to do what you feel is right. dnt try to do.something others tell you if it doesnt sit right with you Most mums can tell pretty well what feels right and wrong for their bubs xx
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