im new here but been reading for a while.
i currently unsure about my rerlationship...since we had children who are under 3yo my feelings for DH have changed a lot...and not really for the better i have to admit. it took us a long time TTC, was quite stressful.
i was wondering..what has happned to others? is it just being tired and busy all the time, will it change when we can be a couple again?
i just find my DH is critical a lot, he seems negative, there always seems to be one of us on the defense about something...my DH for example cristicies my messiness...its so annoying as if he is perfect and when i point out his messiness he blantantly denies it...if i ask my DH for something often its with rolled eyes or barely concealed contempt....sometimes we have different parenting styles and i dont like what he does....there just seems no respect no friendliness, my DH seems to resent me..i dont know? we dont seem to have anything in common now..b4 kids we could go away weekends etc but now it seems like we actually have little of common interest at all.....lately ive been feeling like i dont love him anymore and wonder about leaving thinking i would be happier without him and or have the oppurtunity to find someone who has silmilar values and outlook....??? im confused....have other felt this way with a young family and dod it change??