DP and I have a very close family friend, he was awesome. Always had a kind word and loved our children. And helped us thro a hard time.
Well I have just found out (DP didn't want me to stress) that his become hooked on speed and ice. His house has become the latest druggie spot, his girl friend is very close to leaving him. She already moved back in with her parents again. His picked up a careless attitude toward everything. He works with DP and DP needs to wake him now every morning and force him to work.
And worse still, this makes me wanna cry, his stolen $2000 from a job from work (furniture removals) and spent it on drugs, and if he dosnt give the money back today he will get arrested. I no maybe being arrested will be good an snap him out of it coz his not listening to anyone. His brother is supporting his addiction, and doing it with him.
The only reason he still has a job is coz of DP. DP and the boss are best buds. And our family friend is another best bud of DP.
His about to lose everything and just dosnt care. DP has been our friends gf "saviour" she is the one who ended up telling me about his addiction. I told DP I new and he said he didn't want me to stress. Then yesterday we both found out about the money.
I have no idea what to do or think. I'm so upset this is happening to him. I love him like a brother. And what's worse is if DP and I had a boy this time would of used our friends name as our babies middle name. Now I think that's not appropriate.