Hi all, i have a 10 month old Ds and am not with FOB and never have been.. I have 100% care of DS ( not court ordered) and FOB just comes to see DS a few times a week for a couple of hours. everything has been going well so far except now he wants to have DS overnight soon and im not so sure its a good idea... He has a girlfriend that lives with him and they only have one room and one bed... DS still sleeps with me so there would be no chance of him sleeping alone in a cot if FOB had one, so that just leaves the bed with him and his gf and im am totally against that! The thing is that i would never know, its not like DS can tell me and his dad would just lie about it. I really dont want to argue with him about it but he doesnt seem to think there is anything wrong with that.... how would you feel?