Im super early in my pregnancy (4 weeks).
Ive been pregnant 3 times in my life:
Preg #1 ended in miscarriage at 10 weeks (blighted ovum).
Preg #2 is now 8 years old. I bled at 10 weeks with her also (and I cant remember if this was after sex or not now...) but i know my ob said no sex or orgasms because of the bleed. I was so scared. I dont think we had sex for a long time after that... and then when we did have sex at 35 weeks she came in 10 hours time.
Preg #3: now!
I am sooooo scared of even trying to have sex with my DP now. I am so scared it will start bleeding and end in bad news. I am booked into see my ob on the 19th of June and am thinking maybe I should wait until then to get the all clear and make sure bubs is doing fine in there.
I am of course wanting to be intimate with DP but I am petrified. I know sex cant cause a miscarriage but can cause a bleed and im just so nervous with this pregnancy because we have been waiting for such a long time and I have significant health issues so am wanting to give everything its best shot.
My GP said to try and relax I need to keep thinking I cant control the world.
What do you think i should do- any advice on how to relax?
This may be TMI but Ive had one orgasm (before I knew I was pregnant but I was about 2-3 weeks along) and didnt bleed..... before I knew I was pregnant I thought my period was coming as I had some brown streaking and one red smear..... but nothing for over a week or so now.... and still strong positives on the test.