no no its ok i just quoted what i said because i freak out if people think im being a certain way when im not lol.
So strangers in a supermarket are mean to the checkout girl because they're jealous of her body? And this happens all the time by every large person? If you told me about 1 incident by 1 person I wouldn't have this opinion but because it was so general and felt it happens all the time I stand by my comment and think it's vain and don't think that's the only reason.
Just because someone has admitted to being jealous of a thin person and being mean to them because of that, I don't think every large person is the same.
I think the general idea was that when a fat person is mean to a skinny person BECAUSE THE SKINNY PERSON IS SKINNY, it usually comes from a place of jealousy.
Nobody suggested that the only time a fat person is mean to a skinny person is when they are taking out their jealousy on that skinny person. I'm pretty sure everyone here is not so stupid as to believe a fat person can't simply just be in a bad mood or be a jerk, or whatever, and that sometimes, a skinny person might be a target of that... but that's not due to size. People were talking about nastiness DUE TO SIZE.
She didn't SAY they are mean because they are jealous.
Just as some large people feel unfairly judged for their weight, a PP mentioned she FEELS unfairly judged and this could be because she's thin. Never made mention of jealousy.
If somebody said they feel unfairly judged by thin people because she's overweight I wouldn't see this as vanity nor jealousy. Why is it vanity the other way around? I'd say sometimes people are just @ssholes.
Jarylee has said that she gets comments all the time, and gets picked on for being thin.
In her experience, she feels like larger people often treat her differently from thinner people.
That might not be the case, but it might be. And it's her experience.
I just don't get why anyone would feel the need to say that it's not her experience, and that she is being "vain". If she receives a lot of negative comments about her size then it would explain why she may think that is a reason people are snubbing her.
Without knowing Jarylee (or anyone), it seems odd to say that her experience is invalid.
I've come to the conclusion that there are just a whole lot of jerks in the world
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