I'm having an issue at the moment with my dp and a female friend, let's call her T.
Anyway a bit of background she is dp's brothers girlfriends sister, they all grew up in the same town and weren't close but all knew of each other and T had a crush on dp when they caught the school bus together, anyway years later dp's brother starts dating T's sister and are in our lives quite a bit.
They all came up and stayed with us last weekend and the last two days. I noticed last weekend that dp and T were quite flirty with each other (in a friendly way) like making up stupid handshakes and giving each other cute nicknames, joking around lots, inside jokes. It's so stupid and I know it's in fun and I'm generally not a jealous person. Dp jokes around in similar ways with all of my mates and it never bothers me, I've always been so proud of the amount of trust between me and dp but now this tiny germ of jealousy has stuck in my mind and I can't stop thinking about it. I literally feel sick to my stomach with the thoughts going though my head.
I've talked openly to dp about what I'm feeling and it hasn't made me feel any better at all
I feel so stupid too because I really like T get along wonderfully with her and enjoy her company but I just can't stop this feeling and it's too the point where I don't even wanna leave them alone together.
SIGH..... I don't even know if I want advice or what I just needed to get it out cos it's killing me.
ps if you stuck it out and read (or understood) my ramblings then it's much appreciated.