Good on you WCM!! Your brave!
I would like to say I could but dd and I are both very stubborn so I know I have many battles a head of me as the gets older as its difficult now having battles with a 2yr old
But I'm also a firm believer of self reliant children. I believe shelf help skills should be encouraged and supported as young as you can. My mum thinks I'm a big slackie for making dd change her self out of her wet pants, put them in the hamper and get clean ones out of draw and put them back on if she has had an accident etc she says she is still a baby I insist she is soon a preschooler and needs to learn to undress and dress herself sooner or later and most times she can without assistance (even if pants go on back to front) I much rather celebrate her achievement of getting her socks and shoes on the right feet than help her.