Things your partner have said that still haunts you?

[rosie76]

I guess mine isn't that bad but it hurt at the time. After my daughter was born, we both weren't coping well due to an extreme lack of sleep. He completely shut down and i suggested that I thought he might be a little depressed and would he consider seeing someone about it. He basically said "you know I don't believe in all that hocus pocus - it's all just made up for weak people" - yeah thanks...he knew that I went to a psyc to help me cope and that I was currently completing my honours degree in psychology. I was pretty stunned - and said thanks i'm glad i know how you really feel. He said sorry and explained it was just because he didn't want to go but i felt like he didn't respect me as a person or all the study I did. I nearly left. He has sort of made up for it though because he admires all thing things I implement for the kids behaviour. Still smarts though.

[LivinOnAPrayer]

My now xdh's reaction when DD was being diagnosed with autism:
"Theres nothing wrong with her. You just want more of a hand out and someone to feel sorry for you".

Yeah sure sparky.

Soooo many other hurtful things he's said.

My current DP stuffed up once, said he'd marry a girl like me.

ummmm how about just me??? lol sounds stupid now but it hurt at the time.

[Shelmadean]

My mom told me that she didn't think I would make a good mother, because I wouldn't be strict enough. Keeps popping into my head now that I'm pregnant with my first.
My DH told me that I'm just like his mother, because I'm going to see a counsellor at the moment. I must say that he does not like his mother at all & often criticises her. He says I'm weak & I like making a big issue out of nothing.
So not impressed!

[Carpe diem 2013]

My dh has called me a "psycho b$&@h" on a number of ocassions and told me tonight I was going psycho on him!! - I'm not souring or swearing just discussing or saying something he doesn't want to hear :-(
It's so hurtful but particularly so because I suffer depression. Another good one is when I was crying in bed one night, more sobbing than anything he asks ne what I have to be upset about that my shows had been on tv that night what couldn't possibly be upset about!!!! Aaaaagh