I came across this picture and I do know every situation is different hence apologising in advance if anyone takes offence to it. It was just something I wanted to share.
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Last edited by heartjb; 30-05-2012 at 20:23.
I have a very dear friend who has recently left a marriage of more than ten years. I'd hate for anyone to assume she took the easy way out.
I was married for about 7 years. It was not a happy relationship, we argued frequently. I realised I was never goign to be happy in that relationship. Why should I be unhappy for the rest of my life for the sake of a marriage? We separated. About 18 months later I met DF and fell head over heals in love. For a while I had a husband and a boyfriend I've been with DF for 8 years now and I still want to marry him
My brothers in-laws recently celebrated their (brace yourselves) 75th wedding anniversary!
Amongst other things I think a lot of people go into marriage with very unrealistic expectations. (That is more in relation to divorce in the early years).
Because some people get married, but wont even fart infront of each other!
I don't think the higher rates are a horrible thing. A lot of the older generation I know shouldn't have stayed married as long as they did but became trapped. I don't think that you should just walk away the minute things get tough, or without really giving it a good go to resolve things, but am also glad people don't feel the need to hang in there to the grim death, even when things are bad and not showing signs of improving.
My marriage ended when my XH had an affair. I believe it could have been fixable - but I'm glad we didn't try. I feel much much happier and am glad to say I WAS married not that I AM married. He wasn't the right person for me. I just wish I'd followed my instincts sooner. For the record we were together 11 years married for 5 of them.
Last edited by Theboys&me; 30-05-2012 at 21:51.
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