I was talking to a friend of mine at work about her 2 kids (and preg with 3rd) one day and another girl from work came in and started having a go at her - where were her kids while she was at work, were they all to the same man, what kind of mother leaves her children to come to work, you must have been REALLY young when you got knocked up, etc. my friend turned around and said my kids are at home with my HUSBAND who is their FATHER and I was 20 when I had my first child and I'm at work because we have a mortgage and they enjoy spending time with their dad! The girl had worked with my friend for months and never even noticed the wedding ring or bothered to notice she wasn't 15, she was 25! How can you judge someone and not even know the facts your judging!!??