Yeah I'm going to do a meet the baby BBQ this time around. I feel more than one baby shower comes off a bit pressie-hungry and people really probably don't care as much as hubby and I do! I don't want to be obnoxious!
We had a meet the baby BBQ with first bub (unofficially) and it was great. He was about 3-4 weeks. So much better than inviting people around to see my humongous belly!