Ok so... When I was pregnant, I told DP I don't really want to do the whole godparent thing mainly because I didn't want anyone to get hurt. She really wanted her sister to be bub's godmother, and we just couldn't agree. So we eventually decided that she could be godmother but we wouldn't make a big thing of it in case my sister (or anyone else) found it and got their feelings hurt.
I guess maybe DP forgot about telling her sister because she has posted a couple of things on facebook about her godson. Of course, now my sister has seen it and is upset. My mum has also told me she is hurt (don't know how it affects her though).
DP didn't want my sister to be a godmother because she doesn't feel she is responsible/mature enough, which then leads us into a disagreement because I don't really think her sister is the most responsible or mature person either.
I haven't spoken to DP about this yet because I don't know if we will be able to fix it... Suggestions welcome!!
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