I should be 9weeks and 1day today =( baby passed between 5weeks and 3days and 6 weeks. I am still waiting to miscarry its getting quit drepressing waiting, i start cramping and think this is it then nothing, it was bad between 9pm and this morning but still nothing still just spotting like i have been for the last 8days, i was detrmined to do it naturally but since it dosn't seem to be going to start on its own and rik of infection i am therefore considering a D&C. Has anyone had one done? Where is a good place to have it done? I would prefer not to go to an abortion clinic, (everyone has the right to their own opinions on abortion, and some people have reasons) but i feel i have lost my baby i have no choice but to do what i need to, and they have descided to abort their baby, i just don't feel i could sit in a room full of people plus i don't want to talk to anyone about it i just want to be sad by myself (i don't mean to offend anyone on abortion, sorry if i have as i said my personal oppinion). I have private health insurance if that makes any difference. I AM THINKING OF HAVING IT DONE IN BRISSY AND AS I SAID I DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME TO CHOSE PLEASE HELP. ALSO ANYONE KNOW HOW MUCH IT COSTS?