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    I just reclently been denied on FB lol A friend Ive known for a very long time and who I speak to through PM on facebook anyways denied me and said I had to wait a little bit. WTH buddy... made me feel super sad.
    And it is really rare for me to add people on FB. I wait for them to add me.

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    I never add people willy-nilly (not one of those people with 1000+ friends haha), but it can be quite an awkward social situation. I don't actively seek people to add just for the sake of it and I'm particular about who I want to be friends with...but when I do, I never/very rarely add them

    I have spent way too much time thinking about this rather trivial life 'issue'

    Quote Originally Posted by MrsTiggyWinkle View Post
    No I just avoid ths situation lol, total chicken I only really add people if we have mutually agreed on it outside fb, so there's very little chance of rejection lol. I have added a few friends from the past, and accepted a.few requests from acquaintances etc but I usually end up blocking them cos they fill up my news feed with stuff that I'm not interested in (like 'i'm cooking dinner' followed by I'm eating dinner' followed by 'i'm washing the dishes now' lol)
    I love that you only add people after a mutual agreement

    Hmm have you blocked me on FB Tiggy? All that talk about my amazing dishwasher....

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    I don't add people, i wait to be added.
    I do have a fear of rejection, when i first signed up i was rejected more than once and since then assume anybody i try to add will reject me.
    I totally over-think everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HollyGolightly View Post
    I will generally add people I know / have known, but will delete then just as quickly if they are the kind of person who has a fb account to watch people and contribute nothing. That, or if we never actually interact.

    One thing I fear is wanting to add people from BubHub (some of which have posted in this thread) and I fear rejection from that! The old "I like them from their posts/ comments but do they even notice/like me?!" *thinks back to "am I invisible" thread*
    Ahhh yes, I'm a bit like that with hubbers too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Witwicky View Post
    Ahhh yes, I'm a bit like that with hubbers too
    Yeh i rarely add BH ppl cos I assume they are too cool for me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Buttoneska View Post
    Yeh i rarely add BH ppl cos I assume they are too cool for me...
    Are you being serious?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Witwicky View Post
    Are you being serious?
    yeh totally, why?? Well I know I have you and a few others on there but there are heaps of others that I think 'I wonder if they would know who I am if I add them'

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    I will go through my list every month or so, and if thr person hasnt made any effort to talk to me/I have nothing to say to them, or ignores me, theyre gone.

    I'll only accept requests from people I know well (mostly).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Buttoneska View Post
    yeh totally, why?? Well I know I have you and a few others on there but there are heaps of others that I think 'I wonder if they would know who I am if I add them'
    Everyone knows who you are, you're awesome!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Witwicky View Post
    Everyone knows who you are, you're awesome!
    ahh shucks, but I don't think they do - plus i haven't been on here much. Those who know me, know me but I reckon there a group of 'your kinda familiar but can't quite place you'.

    plus these days I tend to be on FB gossiping to my due group - 17wks now.. woot woot!


 

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