I don't feel like he does it for DSS, enrolling him, paying fees and taking him to the events on our weeks is for dss, watching him play is for dss but getting him to the games and training on BM's week, is for BM.its doing her a favour.
It happens every week it's her week.
She can take her other kids (multiple kids to multiple men) to their sports etc but because DH won't stand up to her we are stuck doing it.
I'm made out like the b!tch because I won't do it for her & do not approve of DH doing it for her, when all I want is for her to step up for the benefit of DSS. I am always the bad guy.