So as the title says my SD is not allowed to come to DDs 1st Bday because it would be for more than an hour or 2.
SD came to me all school holidays while I was on Mat leave to help her mum out so she didn't have to book day care, I looked after SD while she was ill so her mum didnt need to use her sick days, DH agreed to SD spendding an extra few hours with her mum on mothers day to suit the plans they had made!
We ask if SD can come to a picnic for DD 1st Bday and she says no
They don't have anything planned,
BM just doesn't want SD to be away from her for the whole day an hour or 2 would be fine but not a day out! (her words)
Its a long weekend she will still have 2 days with SD (if they had plans I'd understand) SD is in tears sobbing because she adores DD And is really sad to miss her Bday but SD is too worried and scared to tell her mum how upset she is
Im really sick of always doing right by others to keep the peace and be civil because its so one sided.
One set of rules for us.and another for BM Im fed up of it
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