I asked once before and you wise ladies suggested I get a necklace for bub to play with while he feeds. Problem is he prefers to scratch pinch and twist my nipple rather than playing with the necklace. I spend the whole feed yanking his hand out of my top approximately every 10 seconds. The only effective way to stop him is if I hold my other nipple myself, but this isn't very comfortable for the duration of a sometimes hour and a half long feed. Sometimes I hold his hand but he usually protests and struggles if I do that. I've put up with it for most of his 21 months, but some nights (like tonight) it is sooo frustrating that I am totally over feeding him. I'm not going to stop feeding him, nor will I punch him in the head, but those thoughts cross my mind, that's how irritating it is when he darts his hand down my top and scrapes his sharp little nails across the top of my nipple. Is there any way to stop him or is this habit too ingrained now? Has anyone experienced this and are there any happy endings?