Binge drinking is dangerous. Maybe you should consider how much you both drink op.
The OP and her partner have both consumed more than the recommended daily allowances for both men and women- also known as binge drinking. Many people in Australia don't recognise just how little alcohol constitutes binge drinking, hence the big problem we have.
A 6 pack of heavy beer is 6 x 1.4 standard drinks or a total of 8.4 standard drinks in one session, double what a man should consume in any one day. Three Wild Turkey and Cola premix is 3x 1.4 standard drinks so 4.2 standard drinks in one session or day, more than double what a woman should consume on any given day.