A few weekends ago DP took my last beer that I was really looking forward to drinking and I was sooo irrationally mad!
Because having a few beers (just enough to get slightly buzzed) and playing video games is literally the most exciting thing that ever happens in my life these days.
I complained and he offered it back, but I didn't want it because it was 'tainted' with the bad feelings of "dammit I really wanted that why didn't you even ask, I know it's petty but you totally ruined my fun, grrr!"
So I know how you feel.
And I agree that you post a lot of negative things about your partner, but most people do come on here to vent or ask advice about problems - so we only hear the negative things. I really hope there are just as many great things about him that we don't hear about