Hi, I'll try and make a long story as short as possible to get some opinions.
I've been with DH for 5 years. My MIL hates me with a passion. I think it's because she use to have a lot I control over my DH but since I entered the pic, she hasn't had any. My FIL gives me the creeps. In a nutshell, I believe he has sexually abused my DH's children. There is a lot of history with FIL that leads me to believe this. I kept it to myself for years, but last year, I told DH what I really thought. DH didn't stand up for his father, but later told me there was no point as I had made my mind up.
MIL &FIL rang DH the day before we go married saying they were not coming to our wedding. (this suited me fine but I knew DH was devo). They turned up after saying this.
I've had NOTHiNG to do with them since our wedding 3.5 years ago. My DH takes his children to see them
From time to time (and a couple of them don't want to go) but I refuse to see them. I have not allowed them into my home for over 4.5 years.
I'm expecting bubs to arrive in August and I KNOW they will want to see the baby etc. I'm freaking the hell out as I don't even want FiL laying eyes on bubs, let alone hold bubs. MIL will have nothing nice to say (as usual) and I'm sick to my stomach thinking about what will happen after bubs arrives. I know my DH will expect to take bubs to see his parents but I can not trust them with MY BABY!!! What will I do??? Help!