I so know where you are coking from. I too had that heartbreaking conversation with the receptionist at my fertility specialist. I have to wait for 2 cycles to which was also surprising. I like you just want to move on and get back at it again. I am 35 and a half... and the clock gets louder every day. I have had 3 friends anounce their pregnancys this weekend (which was when we were to anounce) one even due the same day that I was
When I had my phone conversation with the clinic was asked about where my blood tests where at and I responded with what blood tests? My doctor didn't even tell me about that bit. So now have to try and get that paperwork sorted before I will even know where I am at for that. I told them that I didn't need blood work done and that my DH was well aware of my stupid hormones and I sure would be able to tell them when my system was back to normal! They got a good laugh out of that.
It is 2 weeks today for me and I am still having randon crying moments that are generally shopping and child related in public places which is not so great.
I hope that your wait goes quickly for you. You will be a bit in front of me though.
Hope that everyone else is going well.
Thanks for the reply Bindi. I am still doing the random cry thing a lot too. You were further along than us. I am so sorry for your loss. It is just so bloody unfair. Plain. And. Simple.
We would have been 12 weeks now too, so totally understand that grief.
Ive been reading a good book, which is confronting but uplifting and eases my pain in some ways because it is giving me perspective on things. But nothing seems to help at the moment. I just want to move on. And this damn body just isnt allowing me to do it, let alone the clinic
Hmm re the bloods stuff. I think I just pestered the FNs so much about bleeding for so long post D&C that they decided they needed to monitor my bloods. And now FS is back he wants that too, always wanted that done, but I think that message got slightly lost in translation.
Its all just a bit **** really isnt it (sorry moderators!).
I feel your hurt with the pregnancy announcements stuff. Had another little moment last night driving home from work and then on the way in this morning, about my eggs being "poor quality" as the lab says (based on the first cycle we did - not the second one, yep still having a hard time coping with this one).
I just wish for all of us I knew how this would all turn out, when the pain and grief about it all will stop - for the losses, the process, the not being able to conceive the natural way, people's looks and thoughts. I know it wont. But I cant keep straying into that area.
It ****s me that I was only just 33 when we started this, we are 4 cycles down and Im about to turn 35, and everything says 35 is bad - although my FS and clinic dont - so I have to keep telling myself that!
Oh dear. Wish this brain came with an off switch! And I wish AF would arrive and we can get going again with that cycle.
Hang in there lovely girl. I am asking the universe again that our time (for all of us on here) is coming - and soon.
Just saying hello and hoping everyone is OK.
I'm good, had my first scan today with FS to start monitoring for ovulation. Things look good, I might actually ovulate earlier than normal, so FET could be as early ad 25th or early the following week. Back on the rollercoaster and I'm a little edgy about this cycle... But that's understandable with this whole process..
How are you?? What are you up to?
Sorry I haven't been around for a while but after my ectopic preg & having my tube removed I just wanted 2 stop thinking about everything baby so i turned off the computer for a while. You could imagine my surprise when i found out that I fell preg naturally & should be about 6 wks. BUT today I have woken up and my (.)(.)'s aren't sore anymore and I am freaking out that this miracle is another nightmare & I don't think I can lose another baby.
Omg Toni!! That is not fair.. That can't be happening??? I do the same thing and keep prodding the BB to make sure their still sore when I'm
Utd. I'm praying with fx all is fine!!!
Thanks zakmick I have my 1st scan Mon 27th& I am hoping 2 c a strong hb if not I don't no wot I'll do. Back 2 crossing my fingers & waiting. U think I would be use 2 waiting by now.
Wow Tony that's great but worrying. Best of luck for your scan.
Hi to all others. Have been trying desperately to keep busy with organizing Polocrosse carnival, day catering and a sit down 3 course meal that I did on my own nearly.
Of course get home tonight with it all over and best man from our wedding who is only married 6 months calls to announce their pg.... Did not handle that well at all
Still trying to get to have bloods down and have stuff to do this week so will see what comes of that I suppose. I hate limbo land!
Sorry for the rant everyone - hope that you are all well!
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