This thread is to support all who need it, I'm not going to welcome you as it suxs you have to be here at all xx
It's tough, I'm guessing that you don't get many eggs through pick up? I'm just assuming as you said both transfers have been fresh. Is there a reason why?
Laparoscopy will be good to do some exploratory investigations are they doing a hystercopy too?
Nk cells are called natural kill cells, some specialists still don't believe that there is any evidence to prove they can affect a pregnancy, but then others strongly believe they do. I believe they do.
My understanding of them is that they are a type of gas ( girls jump in if I'm wrong) that attack something foreign ie the embryo when placed in the uterus.
There is theories that the nk cells increase with failed pregnancies. Therefore it becomes even harder to hold on to a pregnancy.
There is a blood test that can be taken and a biopsy at a certain time of your menstrual cycle for confirmation.
There is a thread on here called 'nk cells', there is another thread the ' colorado protocol' which is protocol that has been introduced to fight against nk cells. However some FS will just put you on a course of steroids (prednisone) for them as this has been the standard treatment for them so far before the Colorado protocol was introduced.
It is so hard when we want something so badly and it seems to be so easy for others- but really we don't know any of their circumstances.
I struggle with dates to, as when I find out I'm pregnant I always associate it with another date that is already significant. Ie birthdays, anniversaries. So a reminder when this significant date comes around to what could have been. I'm not looking forward to Xmas day as that's when I would have been due this year.
I try and not let myself jump ahead too much and just get through each day one by one- but it never happens as you are so excited that it could finally be coming true and then you start planning for the future.
You have youth on your side which is great, as your eggs and partners sperm should be of good quality- not old like mine and dhs lol.
You sound as though you are in good hands with your FS as they are already doing some investigations.
We are all here for each other any time x