Well I went in with all my questions that I wanted answered by FS and they weren't relevant. The test of the product of conception ( poc) came back with abnormality, it had an extra trisomy 13 chromosome and duplication in 5 & 7.
So the good news is, I can carry a baby but the bad news, its turning into a luck game for us.
I questioned FS about how this could happen as both our individual
Karotype results were fine and he said of had a lot to do with age etc.
Unfortunately the chromosomes that were the issue can't be rectified unless we go down the path of PGD and after discussions with FS, app to test the embryo before putting back in a cell is actually taken from the embryo which can in itself cause an abnormality and often perfectly good embryos are wasted.
FS believes we should stay on the same protocol for the next FET, and then discuss other options if we need to do another full cycle.
DH and I have chatted in depth tonight and DH believes if we were to meet with new FS before we transfer our last two FET my head wouldn't be in the right space and I would be questioning everything even more than I am. He is right. To give our last two embies the best chance I'll meet only with new fs if we need to do another cycle. FS said as we get older chromosome abnormalities are more common, well we still have one embie there that has been frozen since 2006 but haven't used it, we are thinking of using this one for next cycle. Younger embie may not have the risks that our current ones do.
I supposed the thing that I'm struggling with is we have done something different each transfer and that has helped me be positive about the the whole process and think this could possibly be the one. But now it's sort of in the lap of the gods, feels I have no control. It does feel good though to know I can get pregnant and I carry a child we just need the right embie to have fertilized correctly.
I'm ok with everything today, it's much better than getting an inconclusive result or no abnormalities as then there would be no reason for the m/c accept the problem being with me.
How's everyone going? Amps has AF showed??