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    What's a purity ball? Not game to google!

    I do agree on the try before you buy, definitely. I had a friend who waited until marriage and her husband was a FREAK in the bedroom and sent her into a panic! By that time it was too late to back out easily!

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    I came in to this thread to say exactly that - try before you buy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benji View Post
    What's a purity ball? Not game to google!

    I do agree on the try before you buy, definitely. I had a friend who waited until marriage and her husband was a FREAK in the bedroom and sent her into a panic! By that time it was too late to back out easily!
    A purity ball (also known as a father-daughter purity ball or purity wedding[1]) is a formal ball dance event attended by fathers and their daughters. Purity balls promote virginity until marriage for teenage girls, and are almost exclusively associated with Evangelical Christian churches in the United States. Typically, daughters who attend make a virginity pledge; a pledge to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. Fathers who attend pledge to protect what they view as their young daughters' "purity of mind, body, and soul."[2]

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purity_ball

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    So glad my dad has never claimed ownership nor taken any interest whatsoever in my s3x life! Thanks witwicky.

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    And the boys are free to plow any field they want! pppffftttt

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    If you wanna wait then wait, if not then don't. But please do not try to define someone else's ways

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    I don't really see virginity as something that is 'given' to someone, I think kind of what Gandalf was saying. I don't know, for me, sex should only be shared between two people who really love and respect each other, and have that connection. Many of my sexual experiences didn't take place under those circumstances, and I do feel I let myself down, like I kind of allowed myself to be treated as an object, in thr same way I treated those men like an object. So yeah, it's not so much about 'virginity' to me but sex in general. Because of those experiences I sometimes wish I'd waited til I was with my husband, I hate the thought of those other men thinking (or saying) things like that they've been there already, or talking about things we did etc. (I'm from a small city where everyone knows everyone's business!)

    One of thr nicest things my husbands said to me was that he wishes neither of us had ever been with anyone else, I guess it's nice just thinking only the two of you have ever experienced that intimacy with each other- no-one else.

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    Personally was not a gift for me and when it comes to a partner I would prefer an experienced man, I was with my ex for 2 years and I was his first and the whole relationship I knew he would want to see what sex with someone other than me was like. I now have a wonderful DH who from what I heard has had a few sexual partners and I love the fact that he prefers me to any of them

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deserama View Post
    And the boys are free to plow any field they want! pppffftttt
    Yes that's the issue I have. Both parties commiting to each other and promising they will wait IMO is sweet and a nice gesture (although I wouldn't do it nor recommend) but one being free to have a s3x life while the other has to be "pure" is absurd. And this is far more likely and common than a teen boy/young man being pressured to 'wait' and a young woman being free to experiment. In fact, I have never heard of this. This is where the 'objectifying women' comes into it, because often it is.

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