I have an interesting question for all the 'men objectifying women' people here.
Is it love, respect or objectifying if two lesbians keep their virginity until they find their life partner?
And I'll mix it up even more; what is it when two men wait to give the gift of the first time to their life partner?
I wouldn't say it was a "Gift" personally.
everyone remembers how they lost their virginity, I can understand in wanting to make it "special" so to speak.
But a gift? No.
In some cultures a commitment? Yes.
But still I don't see it as a gift.
The notion of virginity being a gift is weird to me, like a woman is some kind of chattle. It reminds me of those creepy Purity Balls in the US *shudders*
I don't think male virginity is fetishised as much as female virginity.
I don't think it's creepy/weird/whatever at ALL to wait, calling it a gift is a bit strange to me but whatever floats your boat.
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