Just my opinion, I think it's important to be sexually compatible with someone before deciding to spend your life with them. You wont know this if you dont have sex before marriage. Similar to living with someone. It's really important (again in my opinion) to know you can live with someone before you decide to marry them. But each to their own. It's ok if you don't agree with me. Just saying what's important to me before I decide to marry someone. And yes I married someone who I am compatible with in more ways than 1.