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    Of course it is...I gave my gift to a horse, his name was Richard and while I was riding him (no not in the sick what your thinking) I lost my virginity. Well I think I did. Cause I never bled the first time I had Sx.

    I kinda find it really creepy people who have this fetish for virginity.
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    The questions was "is viriginity a gift?" .. well in some cultures it is to h old out for eachother. My first ever boyfriend and I were virgins when we DTD and we felt we were giving each other the gift of that. It was lovely and not awkward at all.

    Now having said that ... I agree that virginity these days is overated. Things are not like they used to be and not much is sacred anymore. It's a shame but hey .. that's life!

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    If we are talking the breaking of ones hymen (which is the only physical indicator of virginity) no, you can break your hymen from impact and horse riding too.

    The actual first time act of sex? Not to me personally but I have only ever been with ds's father and he with me.
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    Each to their own, but I don't personally view it as a 'gift'.

    There are a lot of men who would think it was the bomb though I imagine. No insecurities about whether she's had a better shag before!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Moosie View Post
    Each to their own, but I don't personally view it as a 'gift'.

    There are a lot of men who would think it was the bomb though I imagine. No insecurities about whether she's had a better shag before!
    Hahaha till she shags someone else and relized he was crap in bed.

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    My virginity was definitely no gift. The memory of the first time involves pain and awkwardness and disappointment for me. I do find it a totally weird idea that an unused vagina is considered so special when in reality it takes time and practice for girls or women to really enjoy sex. I dunno.. to me sex is a nice intimate thing within a relationship and if I had my virginity all over again I probably would have waited but more so because I wish the guy was nicer, not because its a gift..

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    virginity is overrated. dh and i have both had many partners and to us the fact that we knew what we were 'giving up' to be monogomous made it more special.
    the only thing i will teach my children is that s3x is worth sharing with someone you care about and respect, out of a mutual decision, rather than coercian or pressure.

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    Nope Ive never seen it as a gift nor did I hand it off as a gift.

    I see it as calling it a gift gives men greater power to say "yep, she gave it up for me, I was the first to hit it". That is his claim to fame.
    Make virginity bigger then what it is, makes for some real upset and disappointed women and some real douchbag males IMO.

    Virginity as a concept is stupid.

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    I dont see it as a gift either. Although I waited until I was in love to have sex for the first time. And I am lucky enough to have married my first real love and so have only ever slept with the one man. I didnt wait till I was in love to have sex so I was giving him a gift though, it was just that I didnt care enough about anyone before him to want to be as close to them as humanly possible

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlissedOut View Post
    I definitely don't view it as a gift, I suppose you could say 'here is a brand new, unused vagina'... score.
    Ahahaha unused vagina win!!


 

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