I went through a stage where I used to spend hours tweezing my bikini line and underarms, one hair at a time. So painful, for your neack as well as your skin! I can't believe I used to do that. I'm so glad I've found in DH a man who I know finds me attractive even when I'm covered in stubble. I have no idea if past boyfriends cared or not, but I never had a level of communication with them where I even felt comfortable asking!