Oh honey xoxoxoxox (((((((HUGS TO YOU BOTH))))))))
Made me tear up for you. What is a DET? I am not familiar with that.
I am trying to keep positive- but I think in my heart I know it is doomed. So yes, I know what you mean about just knowing.
Let is know what happens at BT- remember sometimes there are surprises. But it sounds unlikely based on your intuition.
Did you get any frosties? Sorry if I asked before.