Poor thing (both of you!). Glad dd is feeling better. She's very lucky that you were right there with her.
I haven't run into too much opposition yet as we've been quite quiet about our AP style. I decided to stop going to my local mothers group (mostly scheduled feedings, 'controlled comforting', etc) and the last time I knew I was going to be there I spoke up about our bed sharing, intent to blw, etc. You should've seen the looks on faces when one mother asked how long I was preparing to let DD sleep in the bed with us and I told her 'Till she's ready for her own bed. I think it'll be around age 2 or 3.' The same mother then asked me if I 'believe in vaccinations'. Haha. It was really quite funny.
I did like the recent comment by actress and AP mummy, Mayim Bialik that basically people should get some perspective and reserve their judgement for those that abuse their children (and leave us loved-up AP'ers alone).