My little boy of five with autism , is now starting to realise hes useing his bowl and bladder . However he refuses to go to the toilet other then once a day before the shower to urinate . He s also putting his bowel movements around the house . Im totally at my wits end with this behavouir . I have just recently descovered some of his poo in my washing machine . A little bit has gotten stuck in the machine and wondering what to do to get it out ???? I wondering if any other mother,s go through this problem with tolileting with their kids with autism or other special needs ? Would love to hear from you .