Hi, hoping I can get some opinions please.
I'm pregnant with my 2nd baby. My first DD is now 15 yrs old. It was just the two of us until she was 10, and I met my now husband. He has 3 chn which I raise, as their mother is ..... Let's just say, can't be bothered raising her own kids.
I really want to share one ultrasound moment with just myself and DD. I have u/s every fortnight due to complications, so they r quite regular.
I get the feeling my DH isn't quite happy that I want this moment with DD, and I think he feels like I'm favoring my DD as I don't have any intention on having a one on one with any of his chn at an u/s, however, I have included them all in previous u/s's and intend to have his kids come along to another u/s.
Does anyone feel that I'm doing the wrong thing by wanting to share 1 ultrasound with just my DD?
I do everything for his kids. I don't love being a step parent, it drives me crazy, but I do treat my daughter and his kids "fairly" and all the same, come rules at home etc.