Could you hate a child...

[Lincolns mummy]

You and your parents are giving her exactly what she wants - attention. Stop!!
Your parents needs to stand up to her and tell her she either gets some help or she gets out.
As for your child, there is no way in h$ll i think they should be at your parents. Your sister isnt stable and who knows what she will do.
I think you need to step back and accept that she doesnt like you or want a relationship with you or your child. It may be hard to face up to but it will take some stress from your life.

[Misschief]

Strange for her to act that way. I wondered if that was her reason to hate you, but it sounds like the hate came before the jealousy? And if it really started at age 10 because your parents gave you more attention that is seriously messed up. Again I don't think there is anything you can do and your parents shouldn't be allowing her to dictate anything or to make demands. She needs help.

Oh the hate was already there. My pregnancy and purchase of my house, just pushed it over the edge.
Perhaps if this had not happened, we might've had a chance to talk things over. Yet I know now that that is just not going to happen.
It hurts to see sisters being close buddies and then looking at your own seeing nothing but a 1 way hatred. Yet this is the way she has chosen us to be and there's not much I can do about it I guess.
Luckily I have some really good friends who I would consider being like sisters to me.
My mother reckons the difference in age might also contribute to us being complete opposites. Even my grandparents (my fathers parents) didn't help by favouring her over me. Letting her sleep over every fornight and I still have no clue what their house looked like upstairs.
Inviting the whole family out for dinner (including my younger cousins), but saying I couldn't come because my sister had made up quite a few horrible stories about me. I was 11yo at the time and ofcourse my mother didn't accept this. She went over there and had a big fight with them. So they made a 180 degree turn and started to favour me over my sister instead. *SIGH*

My family is officially screwed up Oh well, we all have our own skeletons.....